Relationship Coach · Bali

Stop dating the same person in different bodies.

You're smart, self-aware, and still picking the wrong ones. Not because you're broken — because nobody taught you what to look for. I did the hard way. Let me save you the years.

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15 minutes · No pressure · Just clarity

Sound Familiar?

You keep attracting men who almost show up.

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He texts every day but won't commit. You're stuck in a situationship that feels like a relationship but has none of the security.

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Different face, same pattern. You keep choosing the emotionally unavailable one, the one who's "not ready," the one who keeps you guessing.

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You're tired of being the one who cares more. You're always the one initiating, planning, holding the relationship together.

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You overthink every text. You know you're doing it. You can't stop. And it's exhausting.

Meet Neni

I'm not here to judge your choices. I've made them all.

I spent years dating men who showed attention but not intention. I tolerated mixed signals because I thought that's what love felt like. I was the girl who could see everyone else's red flags but not her own.

Then I learned. Not from a textbook — from the wreckage. I studied attachment theory, relationship psychology, and behavioral patterns. Not to become a therapist. To understand why I kept choosing the same pain in different packaging.

Now I help women do in weeks what took me years: recognize patterns, set real standards, and stop confusing chemistry with compatibility.

🧠 Attachment Theory 💡 Behavioral Pattern Analysis 🌿 Holistic Approach 📍 Based in Bali
How It Works

Three steps to breaking the pattern.

1

Discovery Call

15 minutes. Free. You tell me what's happening. I tell you if I can help. No pitch, no pressure.

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Pattern Mapping

We map your relationship history — not to dwell, but to find the pattern. Every woman has one. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

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New Standards, Real Clarity

We rebuild your filter. Not a checklist of traits — a deep understanding of what you actually need vs. what you've been settling for.

Work With Me

Choose your path.

Clarity Session

$50 / session

One deep session when you need answers now.

  • 60-minute 1-on-1 video call
  • Pattern identification
  • Actionable next steps
  • Voice note follow-up within 48 hours
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Women's Circle

$25 / session

Weekly group session. Real talk with women who get it.

  • 90-minute group session (max 10 women)
  • Weekly theme: attachment, boundaries, standards
  • In-person (Bali) or virtual
  • Community WhatsApp group access
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What They Say

Real women. Real shifts.

I realized I wasn't attracting bad men — I was tolerating bad behavior. One session with Neni and I finally understood why. Two months later, I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life.

— S.A., 29, Dubai

She doesn't tell you what to do. She helps you see what you've been doing — and suddenly it all clicks. The overthinking stopped within a week.

— M.K., 26, Bali

I was about to go back to my ex. Again. Neni helped me see the pattern I'd been repeating since I was 19. That conversation saved me years.

— R.L., 31, Jakarta

* Names abbreviated for privacy. Testimonials shared with permission.

Questions

Before you ask.

Are you a licensed therapist?

No — and that's intentional. I'm a relationship coach, not a therapist. I work with self-aware women who don't need diagnosis — they need pattern recognition and practical strategy. If I think you need therapy, I'll tell you honestly.

Do you only work with single women?

Mostly, yes — women who are dating, in situationships, or recovering from one. But I also work with women in relationships who feel something is off and can't name it.

Is this in-person or online?

Both. If you're in Bali, we can meet in person (I love a good cafe session). If not, everything works beautifully over video call. The Women's Circle runs both formats.

What if I'm not sure this is for me?

Book the free discovery call. 15 minutes. If I'm not the right fit, I'll tell you — and point you to someone who is. No hard feelings, no sales pitch.

Can you guarantee I'll find love?

No. Anyone who guarantees that is lying. What I can guarantee: you'll understand why you keep choosing what you choose. And once you see it, you'll never unsee it. That changes everything.
Ready?

Your next relationship starts with understanding this one — the one you have with yourself.

15 minutes. Free. Just you, me, and honesty.

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